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5 Considerations Before You Check In at the 幸运农场分析软件酒店

秋天,许多夫妇涌向美丽的纽约北部,欣赏美丽的树叶。本月,快速幸运农场分析软件也可以加入秋季假期。纽约萨拉托加温泉的吉迪恩·普特南度假村将首次亮相– a designation as a “Divorce Hotel.”

autumn-in-new-york-4-917237-m.jpg该酒店坐落在一块美丽的土地上,多年来一直被视为绝佳的婚礼场所。的“Divorce Hotel” concept has actually been in practice in Europe recently, 和 now the US will be giving it a try. The general premise is that instead of worrying about a long, drawn-out 和 hostile process, couples can come for a weekend getaway 和 have their divorce taken care of, while enjoying scenic walks 和 spa treatments during the process. While I appreciate the idea of not wanting to prolong what is already a difficult process, I, as a mediator, question whether this approach provides couples with an environment conducive to informed decision-making. Given the delicate 和 complex nature of divorce, coupled with its lasting consequences, checking into the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 should only be done, if at all, in very limited circumstances.

该酒店为这对夫妇进行了个性化的参与调解过程。虽然酒店承认不能保证成功的结果,但指出幸运农场分析软件只能在几次调解会议中完成,其想法是在会议休息期间,每一方都可以进行其他活动(单独或一起) 。酒店’调解员甚至指出,环境甚至可能允许夫妻重新点燃婚姻,因此最终不需要幸运农场分析软件。

从表面上看,这对于某些人来说可能是一个有吸引力的想法–为什么在周末可以照顾好一切时感到压力呢?在大多数情况下,婚姻破裂需要从经济和情感角度考虑。如果涉及儿童,则必须多考虑育儿问题,以确保儿童的最大利益。与父母双方保持持续,有意义的关系需要仔细计划。每个家庭都是独一无二的,没有“one size fits all” approach. While the hype surrounding the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 may tempt those who want to avoid a costly court battle 和 move on with their lives quickly, there are certain considerations that any couple should keep in mind before checking in:

1.选择正确的流程和正确的调解人

家庭和幸运农场分析软件调解旨在作为一个秘密过程,在此过程中,调解员作为公正的第三方,可以通过促进自愿协议来促进家庭纠纷的解决。调解员’s job is to encourage understanding 和 assist communication while focusing on common goals 和 interests. The artificial deadline 和 environment created 通过 the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 undermines the standards 和 goals of the mediation process, as couples might feel undue pressure to reach an agreement in the short, two-day weekend.

就其本质而言,“Divorce Hotel”概念从许多方面损害了这一过程。影响这对夫妻’s ability to gather 和 process information. It affects a proper screening to ensure that mediation is the right process. The ability to choose the right mediator for the case is also eliminated, or at the very least limited. 夫妇 should choose a mediator that they feel comortable with, 和 one that they feel can adequately handle their case. Every mediator has a duty of competence, 和 the mediator should have the level of skills 和 experience that the case requires.

幸运农场分析软件酒店目前已聘请内部调解员处理幸运农场分析软件案件,并有可能计划增加更多的调解员。根据您的调解人的身份为您做出选择似乎是件好事,但如果夫妻俩对调解员不满意,则可能会阻碍整个过程。

While many of the details are still being worked out for the new 幸运农场分析软件酒店, it is unclear if there is any specific stance on bringing in outside counsel. Even when a couple chooses mediation, many parties choose to consult with his/her own independent counsel during the process. When consulting with their attorneys, parties are entitled to the confidentiality of any of those communications.

同样重要的是要记住,调解员在此过程中是中立的,并不代表任何一方的利益。建议各方在此过程中有能力与自己的监护人进行咨询。在一个周末幸运农场分析软件的方式会以有意义的方式影响与律师进行咨询的能力。

2.幸运农场分析软件过程中获取信息至关重要

Any decisions made during mediation must be based upon sufficient factual information. While it is possible to have the information ready 和 available in one weekend, there may be many situations where it just is not feasible. In my own experience, the divorce process is very often the first time the couple sits down together to discuss detailed asset 和 debt information. 夫妇 may need help in deciding what information they need to make comprehensive decisions. No matter if the case is high-income 和 assets or low-income 和 assets, there needs to be sufficient understanding of the couple’s cash flow in order to ensure fairness 和 a positive outcome. 夫妇 also needs to trust that the information is accurate 和 complete.

可能需要更多信息的一个示例是任何一方都拥有公司所有权。在大多数情况下,仅仅掌握业务性质需要花费超过一个周末的时间。应就是否需要评估做出明智的决定。当分析更多信息时,乍看起来似乎公平的东西实际上可能是不平衡的。为了确保公正,积极的过程(和结果),不仅必须提供信息,而且还必须对其进行正确的分析,这可能只需要几天的时间。

另一个例子是退休资产的分配。需要了解每种资产的性质及其收益,以确保分配合理并避免不平等交易。

3.幸运农场分析软件过程的长度可能会因您自己的独特情况而异

夫妇’s specific circumstances will dictate just how long the mediation process will take. Because divorce is a big step, couples should not set articifical deadlines that impair good decision-making. it is important to set a practical pace based upon the information needed 和 how each person processes information. Checking in to the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 sets an expectation, whether planned or not, to reach an agreement in just one weekend. It is unclear at this point what happens if an agreement is not reached during the weekend. Will the mediator outline the next steps for the couple? Will a return to the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 be required? Alternatively, would the couple need to start anew with a new mediator? These are questions that should be asked before checking in.

4.您想对您的信息保密吗?

As the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 gets ready to open for business, there is the possibility of being featured on a reality show in which couple’的经验记录在案。尽管这对夫妇必须退出电视节目,但值得注意的是,检查您希望安静而无压力的过程实际上可能会引起媒体的狂热。

Reality show or not, 通过 its very nature, the 幸运农场分析软件酒店 affects the privacy of the mediation. It seems that the environment of the 幸运农场分析软件酒店, which encourages mingling among couples, would lend itself to a breach of confidentiality. Will the Hotel staff understand the delicacy of the mediation proces? How will the couples’机密受到保护吗?

5,管理您的期望

幸运农场分析软件的夫妇希望达成持久和实际的协议。他们将继续遵守该协议。这不仅会影响他们的生活质量,还会影响他们与孩子的关系以及他们自己的财务安全和独立性。考虑到所有这些,夫妻希望在一个周末结束幸运农场分析软件的压力和痛苦可能会造成意想不到的后果。